Dr. Suzan Song, Harvard and Stanford-trained psychiatrist, humanitarian adviser, and author of Why We Suffer and How We Heal
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Psychiatrist · Humanitarian · Adviser

In my experience, instability is what invites us into transformation.

Dr. Suzan Song is a Harvard and Stanford-trained psychiatrist who has spent two decades inside some of the most extreme human experiences there are, from Silicon Valley founders to government officials to survivors of war. What she found across all of them shaped everything she now teaches about how we heal.

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A monthly letter from a psychiatrist who has spent two decades with war survivors and Silicon Valley founders in the same career. Clear thinking about how we make decisions, carry responsibility, and stay grounded when the ground keeps moving.

You've been handed a script, a costume, and pushed onto a stage. At first, you know you're acting. Over time, you forget it's an act.
- Dr. Suzan Song, on Narrative

A psychiatrist, anthropologist and global mental-health expert who explores how instability, trauma, and human connection shape the way we suffer - and the ways we heal.

Suzan Song, MD, MPH, PhD has spent more than two decades bridging clinical care, humanitarian crises, public policy, and systems transformation. In her practice, she works with high-performing CEOs, founders, political figures, and physicians navigating private crises. In the field, she has worked with former child soldiers in Sierra Leone and Burundi, displaced families in Haiti and the DRC, and Syrian refugees in Jordan.

What connects these seemingly different populations is surprisingly universal: our shared vulnerability and capacity for both suffering and healing.

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Why We Suffer and How We Heal by Dr. Suzan Song — book cover, Penguin Random House 2026

Why We Suffer and How We Heal

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"An exceptional contribution to the literature, akin to Frankl's Man's Search for Meaning."

- Joseph C. Kolars, MD, Professor of Medicine, University of Michigan

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The power of ritual lies not in what is said but in what is felt. Not all emotions need to be processed verbally. Sometimes words just get in the way.
- Dr. Suzan Song, on Ritual

For leaders who know the hardest work is the work within

Dr. Song speaks and advises across sectors, from Fortune 500 companies and philanthropic foundations to government agencies and global health organizations. Her clients have included Google, Harvard, Stanford, and the U.S. Departments of State and Homeland Security.

Keynote Speaking

Instability, resilience, leadership

Foundations & Philanthropy

Mental health, migration, trauma

Humanitarian & Global Health

Conflict-affected populations

Executive & Organizational

Performance, culture, change

Government & Public Sector

Trauma-informed federal policy

Clinical Services

Individual and organizational care

Speaking & Advisory Inquiry

For conferences, foundations, government agencies, humanitarian organizations, and leadership teams navigating complex human challenges.

When purpose is missing, success feels empty. The difference is between living with meaning and simply making it through.
- Dr. Suzan Song, on Purpose
"Instability is challenging, but what makes it unbearable is going through it alone."

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